fire and chickens!

“Life is so stressful, so busy, so complicated, give me some peace!” I hear it all the time and before we moved to France I was repeating it myself. I needed to step away from all of that business and desire to get a clear view. To find my own voice again. Being caught in the treadmill…

spring

It has been quiet here. While life has been nothing but quiet: We have renovated our house in Amsterdam, we got chicken and rabbits and a lot more living space. We have all kind of work projects tumbling over each other. The happy chaos of the children. The problems of daily life. Saying goodbye to our dog. Finding…

princesses

“Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love.” Rainer Maria Rilke    

stand still

Stand still. The trees ahead and the bushes beside you Are not lost. Wherever you are is called Here, And you must treat it as a powerful stranger, Must ask permission to know it and be known. The forest breathes. Listen. It answers, I have made this place around you, If you leave it you…

I am doing it!

Yes I am doing it! I cannot believe it! It took me years to come to this point. I went all around the world, the physical and the spiritual one, up and down in myself, through impossibly happy and impossibly sad times, through panic and fear and solitude to collect the experience, vision, understanding and…

themes

As you might have noticed I have been messing around with a new theme for this blog. No luck yet, because as usual I have in mind what I want and I cannot find it. It does not help that I am not very handy in the digital realm, so the site looks a bit…

your soul

If your life is not going the way you want. If thing are difficult, hard, uneasy. Put your soul first. Put it in front of anything else, make it your top priority. Remember how you felt after that holiday, hike, great conversation, amazing sex, sublime concert. Remember how it feels when your soul is happy…

to be privileged

This is a very sensitive subject which I’ve addressed before: being privileged. In all of my work I have been judged to be an over-privileged, white, skinny, rich mom. And you know what? I am. And it’s true : I don’t know what it’s like to be poor, to be hungry or to drag my new…

YSL

Thank you so much to those who attended my class yesterday ay The School of Life in Amsterdam. It was fantastic! For those who were not there, here’s a clip I shared. I watch it about once a month, just to remind myself that a successful life is all about :  the encounter with oneself. Watch it here.     

surprise!

This friday January 29th I am giving a surprise premiere lecture at The School of Life Amsterdam. It is a try-out, so things are exciting, new, can go wrong (hope not!) and I would love your feedback. From 14.00 – 16.30 for only 10,- including drinks. Come join and meet me for a drink afterwards!…

on motherhood and guilt

Gala was Dalì’s muze for life and also the muse of other artist like Louis Aragon and André Breton. When I read about her I learn what an inspiring and free spirit she was and how much she influenced their work. I also learn that she had a daughter before she married Salvador Dalì and how much she…

dalì

Dalì museum in Figueres, Spain. Hardly empty in January.