“Why do you want to shut out of your life any uneasiness, any misery, any depression, since after all you don’t know what work these conditions are doing inside you? Why do you want to persecute yourself with the question of where all this is coming from and where it is going? Since you know,…
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stand still
Stand still. The trees ahead and the bushes beside you Are not lost. Wherever you are is called Here, And you must treat it as a powerful stranger, Must ask permission to know it and be known. The forest breathes. Listen. It answers, I have made this place around you, If you leave it you…
dalì
Dalì museum in Figueres, Spain. Hardly empty in January.
7 years today
Seven years ago I woke up in the middle of the night with a strange feeling. Two-and-a-half hours later T was holding a little baby boy, only 2,5 kilo’s. I remember seeing he’s tiny face and feeling a shock: he is someone! Not a little fluffy baby like other babies I’d seen. This was a…
Spain today
Photograph by Scott Zimmerman. Nice to meet you!
DH Lawrence
Those that go searching for love only make manifest their own lovelessness, and the loveless never find love, only the loving find love, and they never have to seek for it. “Search for Love” The Works of D. H. Lawrence
her own nico
Nico in La Cicatrice Intérieure (1972)
to be your own
You want to be your own. You want to do things your way. You want to live the life that truly makes you happy. Then you come out of school and get an education because that’s the way to get a job to make money to be able to buy a house, support a family and go…
Glamour
I’ve written an article on the connection between anxiety and self-respect for Dutch Glamour Magazine. Out now.
fear
“Are you afraid? How afraid? Three stars? Four stars?” The Belgian reporter walks around the street of Brussels asking people about their level of fear. Most people are afraid they say. Because of Paris. Because of other people who are afraid. Because of what could happen. I thought I wasn’t afraid, I wouldn’t let it…
How’s your practice?
My friend Sofia is a yoga teacher. I had been doing yoga on and off for years when I met her. Going to classes once a week, stretching a little on the mat in the morning or for months nothing at all because I was too busy. She encouraged me to roll out my mat, to even…
why we are all so unhappy
I loved this piece on Gwyneth Paltrow’s blog GOOP the other day. Again I understand why it is so important to spend time in nature, to keep on questioning everything, not taking things for granted, just figuring out what’s your way to go in life and be brave. Even if it feels like exploring a dark cave…